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Chapter 48 · Chapter on Tafsirحَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ، حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الشَّيْبَانِيُّ، قَال: سَمِعْتُ شَهْرَ بْنَ حَوْشَبٍ، قَالَ: حَدَّثَتْنَا أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ الْأَنْصَارِيَّةُ، قَالَتْ: قَالَتِ امْرَأَةٌ مِنَ النِّسْوَةِ: مَا هَذَا الْمَعْرُوفُ الَّذِي لَا يَنْبَغِي لَنَا أَنْ نَعْصِيَكَ فِيهِ ؟ قَالَ: لَا تَنُحْنَ ، قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، إِنَّ بَنِي فُلَانٍ قَدْ أَسْعَدُونِي عَلَى عَمِّي، وَلَا بُدَّ لِي مِنْ قَضَائِهِنَّ، فَأَبَى عَلَيَّ، فَعَاتَبْتُهُ مِرَارًا، فَأَذِنَ لِي فِي قَضَائِهِنَّ، فَلَمْ أَنُحْ بَعْدَ قَضَائِهِنَّ وَلَا عَلَى غَيْرِهِ حَتَّى السَّاعَةَ، وَلَمْ يَبْقَ مِنَ النِّسْوَةِ امْرَأَةٌ إِلَّا وَقَدْ نَاحَتْ غَيْرِي. قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى: هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ، وَفِيهِ عَنْ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا، قَالَ عَبْدُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ: أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ الْأَنْصَارِيَّةُ هِيَ أَسْمَاءُ بِنْتُ يَزِيدَ بْنِ السَّكَنِ.
Translation
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The Arabic text and the translations come from our previous collection: English from hadithapi.com, German and Turkish machine-translated (Gemini) and unreviewed. A new translation from the Arabic with the chain of narration will follow.
Shahr bin Hawshab said: “Umm Salamah Al-Ansariyyah narrated to us, she said: ‘A woman said: “What is this Ma’ruf for which we are not to disobey in?” He (pbuh) said: “[That you not wail.]” I said: “O Messenger of Allah! Verily Banu so-and-so comforted me in the case of my uncle, and I must reciprocate for them.’ But he refused to allow me. So I asked him again numerous times, then he permitted me to reciprocate for them. So after reciprocating for the, I did not wail for anyone else until this time. And there does not remain a woman except that she has wailed besides me.’”